Hello,
I have only been going out with my girlfriend a short time, and have never ignored her calls before, but today I did (not out of malice, as I'll explain later), and I'm unsure as to if I've upset or offended her.
Basically I was round a friends house, and my girlfriend called me to discuss something we've been arranging for a while (we are long distance), and since I was in one of my friends houses (elderly friends), I didn't want to answer the phone. They're in the middle of watching television, and I wasn't sure hoe they'd feel about me abruptly answering a call.
Instead I ignored the first phone call, five mins later she rang again and so I promptly excused myself into another room. Answered the call...It was rather awkward on the phone eith her, since I was in someone else's house, and I actually told my girlfriend I was sorry if I seem awkward, I'm just over a mates house at the moment, so that's why I didn't answer first time around. Her tone changed and she was like oh I'm sorry, and she seemed a bit agitated by it. I feel bad, like I've upset her.
I sent her a text explaining that I wasn't sure how they'd feel about me taking the call, so I didn't the first time. I've had no reply.
I feel as though I shouldn't have admitted to intentionally ignoring the call, as it makes me seem like a bit of a d**k, even though it wasn't intended this way.
Am I overthinking this or is it likely she feels unappreciated or pushed out?
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