Ok I am new here. First post actually. I am so lost right now. I am looking for some solid advice.
Together 10 years married 8 years.
2 children 6yo boy 13yo stepdaughter.
Seperared 2 months. She moved out of home.
She had an affair. I forgave. Things got better then BAM. She says she's not happy and leaves fast.
I wanted to work on she doesn't. She has many different reason for leaving.
She now has a boyfriend.
She wants to be best friends.
Since the split we have spent a lot of time together with kids and without kids. No sex.
But i don't know what to do now that she has boyfriend. It hurts.
I thought us spending time together would be good for reconciliation.
She told boyfriend she would still spend time with me and is ok with it.
We split time with kids bills etc. No lawyers. No seperation agreement signed.
I love any time we spend together or talk or text.
Tried 180 but trying to be best friends and doing 180 doesn't work.
We work for same company. Boyfriend does too. Yet we have not told anyone at work we are seperared. Wichita makes it hard for me to move on.
I have been there for her when she needs.
I don't know what to do.
Try to be friends hoping for possible reconciliation?
Go complete 180?
Go no contact?
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Together 10 years married 8 years.
2 children 6yo boy 13yo stepdaughter.
Seperared 2 months. She moved out of home.
She had an affair. I forgave. Things got better then BAM. She says she's not happy and leaves fast.
I wanted to work on she doesn't. She has many different reason for leaving.
She now has a boyfriend.
She wants to be best friends.
Since the split we have spent a lot of time together with kids and without kids. No sex.
But i don't know what to do now that she has boyfriend. It hurts.
I thought us spending time together would be good for reconciliation.
She told boyfriend she would still spend time with me and is ok with it.
We split time with kids bills etc. No lawyers. No seperation agreement signed.
I love any time we spend together or talk or text.
Tried 180 but trying to be best friends and doing 180 doesn't work.
We work for same company. Boyfriend does too. Yet we have not told anyone at work we are seperared. Wichita makes it hard for me to move on.
I have been there for her when she needs.
I don't know what to do.
Try to be friends hoping for possible reconciliation?
Go complete 180?
Go no contact?
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