Hi, this is my first post so I hope this makes sense. My husband and I have been married for 24 years - this is a second marriage for both. It's had it's ups and downs but basically has been good. He is a hard worker, almost to an extreme. He spends most every weekend working in the yards. We never do anything unless he wants to do it. We never go anywhere, If I mention doing something he says he has yard work to do..But if someone else asks him to do something - off he goes. He watches what I eat..If I get ice cream he has something to say about it - He seems to always have a comment about what I'm eating, when I'm going to tan, etc. I finally told him I'm not 20 and I'm not Spanish, if that is what he is looking for then I'm not the one. He is so about appearances, has a huge issue with people who are overweight. He is average weight, no 20 year old guy with a six pack or anything...but I love him for who he is.. anyway - then when I get upse t over some of his comments he says he is just joking and I shouldn't take it so seriously.....am I over reacting>??:scratchhead: Also I am 55 and he is 63...I take care of myself and how I dress. I was 120 when we married and now am 140..I have never weighed this much but I'm getting older and I'm defiantly not overweight..I'm 5'6....He is constantly on me about my weight and what I eat and I am sick of it - when I call him out on it he says he's joking and I shouldn't get so upset. I've had guys ask me out older then me to 25 years old. I would never do that, but obviously there are guys out there who must not think I look too bad. Why does he make these comments and should I be offended or am I overreacting....also our sex life in non existent because I have no desire to have sex with him...What's going on here...
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