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My husband and I have been married over a year, but we have been tighter for 6 years. I think his emotional affair lasted about 2 years. For these two years we had a pretty rough. I was going through a lot of things with my family. On top of family problems I was working for our family business which closed down.
My husband and I will was still dating when this colleague started working with him. We had a very good relationship and my husband always get compliments from other women about how great husband he is.
Our first big fight happen when I found a pair of panties in my cub broad that wasn't mine. Needless to say I don't know where it came from but I am also sure that he didn't cheat on me. That day I phoned him at work and this colleague over heard him talking on the phone and started asking him questions and he told her. From this point onwards they started this relationship. I started becoming more and more jealous and I wasn't sure why. He always reassured me that they were just good friends. We got engaged and a year later we got married. On our honeymoon she contacted him almost every day. I started to get annoyed and he deleted the message. I was also at fault, because when we fought I said he could go speak to her as she made him feel better.
This continued for a year and I finally reached appoint where I was about to walk out. I then starting doing research and come across an article about emotional affairs. I mailed him the article and he read is and said he think it is actually what happen. Even though he admitted I knew there was something he was hiding. He eventually told me that they flirted and there was an incident where he got a lift home with her and he started to feel uncomfortable and felt like he was having an affair.
There is obviously a lot more to the story but I feel like I have outlined the points. He has since the stop discussing our private life with her and stopped talking about her. I feel that he needs to get a another job as I think she won't stop trying to get him back. I am I overacting? Was this just a close friend? If it was an emotional affair should I leave him?
My husband and I have been married over a year, but we have been tighter for 6 years. I think his emotional affair lasted about 2 years. For these two years we had a pretty rough. I was going through a lot of things with my family. On top of family problems I was working for our family business which closed down.
My husband and I will was still dating when this colleague started working with him. We had a very good relationship and my husband always get compliments from other women about how great husband he is.
Our first big fight happen when I found a pair of panties in my cub broad that wasn't mine. Needless to say I don't know where it came from but I am also sure that he didn't cheat on me. That day I phoned him at work and this colleague over heard him talking on the phone and started asking him questions and he told her. From this point onwards they started this relationship. I started becoming more and more jealous and I wasn't sure why. He always reassured me that they were just good friends. We got engaged and a year later we got married. On our honeymoon she contacted him almost every day. I started to get annoyed and he deleted the message. I was also at fault, because when we fought I said he could go speak to her as she made him feel better.
This continued for a year and I finally reached appoint where I was about to walk out. I then starting doing research and come across an article about emotional affairs. I mailed him the article and he read is and said he think it is actually what happen. Even though he admitted I knew there was something he was hiding. He eventually told me that they flirted and there was an incident where he got a lift home with her and he started to feel uncomfortable and felt like he was having an affair.
There is obviously a lot more to the story but I feel like I have outlined the points. He has since the stop discussing our private life with her and stopped talking about her. I feel that he needs to get a another job as I think she won't stop trying to get him back. I am I overacting? Was this just a close friend? If it was an emotional affair should I leave him?
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