long story short became friends with this guy several month,he asked me out and I declined then we tarted dating for a while..I ended up ending things as it was my first relationship and I acted like a little girl when he tried to kiss me or be openly affectionate..I cringe at that now. We agreed to stay friends but communication did drop and things took on an awkward tone.We arranged to catch up properly as we both hated the distance that had grown between us and it ended with both of us drunk and almost kissing,hugging,holding hands,him complimenting a lot like he used to,gave me a back massage etc.. we both clarified after that when sober that we had moved on and it was swept under the carpet so to speak. Since then he started texting more often and he texts me good morning every morning and we texted from sun up to sun down last weekend.We hung out today and he was complimentig again,really touchy feely(hand on my waist,head on my shoulder sometimes) ,another back massage when I muttered I was stressed etc..and we had made plans to go out clubbing next week just us as I'm going on holiday and he said he would miss me (but said he would text everyday) and we ended up discussing a little why things ended between us and he blamed me for it all(it was all me) and then he casually mentioned how he had kissed several girl while on a night out this week,how how one was etc..and I noticed he has changed,he never used to be like that so after some querying he said as after trying with me for so long he should try something else and he was egged on by a 'player' friend and alcohol etc..which vaguely irritated me as I still like him but messed things up last time..is he sending mixed signals or are these all friendship behaviours?
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