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Flipping between being confident & nervous (Asking a Girl Out)

Hi there, so 9 days ago I found the confidence to ask this girl out. I made it quite quick, and left straight after. She looked surprised and said "ok yeah cool". She went away for 9 days, and I said I'll talk to her once she get back.

So anyway, now I'm seeing her again tonight. I feel like I've almost got to go through the whole process again and ask her out.
I've been feeling pretty confident all week, but the last few days I've got really nervous thinking about it. And now today, I just can't see myself doing it!

I get the impression she likes me, but I'm not 100% sure. I'm not afraid of a no, but I'm afraid of me being awkward in asking her, and if she says no, that I'll ruin an already good thing between us, and it will be awkward from then on.

Also the situation, I'm not sure it's the best place:

We are both attending this same event, there's going to be friends and family all around. We will get some time to talk together, one on one, but not in private. I'm going to ask her 'again' when I get that chance, however do you think that would be uncomfortable for her, with others floating around (not in earshot)?

I won't really get a chance to try and move somewhere private, and if I did I think that will feel forced, awkward, and pile more pressure on her?


Thoughts? :)

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