did he get cold feet?

im feeling a bit confused about this situation. i was talking to a guy for about 6 months, texting fb, but we never met up. eventually we did, it was great, we talked a lot no awkward silences, had a laugh and kissed etc.. then the next day he texted me all day and i felt really happy. he normally contacted me all day everyday.. so i assumed this was leading somewhere or he liked me. i hung out with him again the next week, and it was the same, a good time. i stayed and was going to leave but when i said "ill head soon" he said "no" so he obviously wanted me to stay longer.. but after i left i never heard from him. i didnt wanna be annoying so i made the effort to send the odd random text, but i got short replies from him, many hours later or days. so it went from all day everyday, to nothing really.. for no apparent reason. i asked him if something was wrong and if he didnt wanna talk anymore id rather he told me that, and he didnt reply. i was then out with friends to the pub and he happened to be there too.. i felt really stupid. he sent me a text saying he "isnt good with girls" and i felt really upset.. like id been led on? the next day he said he 'gets bored' of people and 'cant be arsed with them anymore'... and said he felt **** about that happening to him (how does he think i felt..)

so im just wondering if he got cold feet and maybe other guys have experience of doing this to girls? or does it just sound like i was used? cos you dont really talk to someone for that long just to then give up on things when everythings going well.. i havent heard from him since so should i just leave it and move on? its made me feel pretty humiliated.

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