Hello everyone, I am new to this site and hope I won't bore you all with my story!
I am a new wife who married young (engaged at 16 and married at 18). I love my husband with all of my heart but we have been going through some hardships within our 4 month marriage. We are both very strong and devoted Christians and I have been praying A LOT lately for the connection to come back in our relationship.
My husband believes that we got married too early, he is 20 and I am 18. We've been together for almost 3 years and I can't imagine my life without him, but I don't want to continue to drag him along if he is unhappy with me and our relationship.
It seems as if my husband is all I have, I moved to another state with my mom when I was 15 a couple months later I met him. The year before that my father (whom I was extremely close to) passed away. All of my family is far away from me now so the thought of losing my husband is terrifying. I try to be as independent as possible, but this situation makes it difficult for me to find myself as an individual. That is one of the many things that troubles our relationship. He wants me to be a mature and self sufficient wife, which to a certain degree I think I am, but he strongly disagrees.
If you guys have any (POSITIVE) advice for me please feel free to respond!
I am a new wife who married young (engaged at 16 and married at 18). I love my husband with all of my heart but we have been going through some hardships within our 4 month marriage. We are both very strong and devoted Christians and I have been praying A LOT lately for the connection to come back in our relationship.
My husband believes that we got married too early, he is 20 and I am 18. We've been together for almost 3 years and I can't imagine my life without him, but I don't want to continue to drag him along if he is unhappy with me and our relationship.
It seems as if my husband is all I have, I moved to another state with my mom when I was 15 a couple months later I met him. The year before that my father (whom I was extremely close to) passed away. All of my family is far away from me now so the thought of losing my husband is terrifying. I try to be as independent as possible, but this situation makes it difficult for me to find myself as an individual. That is one of the many things that troubles our relationship. He wants me to be a mature and self sufficient wife, which to a certain degree I think I am, but he strongly disagrees.
If you guys have any (POSITIVE) advice for me please feel free to respond!
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