Hi im just trying to get some advice really. Im in my second year at uni. Im sick to death of always being put down laughed at or mocked out by my friends. I live with my friends of campus and its just getting unbearable
I know im not particularly clever im severely dyspraxic which means half the time I get my words muddled up or say the wrong thing. Im pretty clumsy and I know that I lack any common sense. I struggle in social situations at the best of times usually I just panick and cant speak or say something silly but recently the only topic of conversation my housemates seem to have is me. They take the mick out of me constantly in front of other people its not just laughing at stupid things ive done its everything. They call me thick and stupid in front of other people.
They laugh at me behind my back sometimes when I come into the room and they are hysterically laughing I ask what there laughing at and they say me. They make out to everybody im some stupid idiot, they patronise me they talk over me and tell me I don't understand. The girl I live with just expects me to pay x amount per month for bills and when I ask to see bills she says I wouldn't get it its beyond my capacity.
Another example was last night the girls boyfriend is staying and he wore my glasses and said we had the same ones so I said great minds think alike trying to be jokey and he said he wouldn't want my mind because im thick. To which the all hysterically laughed about for the rest of the night. WHen I was cutting up some chicken for my dinner when people were round they took the knife of me incase I' hurt myself'. They even take the piss out of me and my boyfriends sex life they say im to innocent and I don't understand!.
Ive snapped a few times and said im not stupid but I am just in despair as its always those 2 against me then their friends and partners joining in. I never blow my own trumpet I never mention the fact that I got A levels far higher than them or that Im doing a law degree im not stupid I know im not thick but I don't know how to handle the situation. I feel so depressed at uni I just want to cry and go home. Any advice would be great
I know im not particularly clever im severely dyspraxic which means half the time I get my words muddled up or say the wrong thing. Im pretty clumsy and I know that I lack any common sense. I struggle in social situations at the best of times usually I just panick and cant speak or say something silly but recently the only topic of conversation my housemates seem to have is me. They take the mick out of me constantly in front of other people its not just laughing at stupid things ive done its everything. They call me thick and stupid in front of other people.
They laugh at me behind my back sometimes when I come into the room and they are hysterically laughing I ask what there laughing at and they say me. They make out to everybody im some stupid idiot, they patronise me they talk over me and tell me I don't understand. The girl I live with just expects me to pay x amount per month for bills and when I ask to see bills she says I wouldn't get it its beyond my capacity.
Another example was last night the girls boyfriend is staying and he wore my glasses and said we had the same ones so I said great minds think alike trying to be jokey and he said he wouldn't want my mind because im thick. To which the all hysterically laughed about for the rest of the night. WHen I was cutting up some chicken for my dinner when people were round they took the knife of me incase I' hurt myself'. They even take the piss out of me and my boyfriends sex life they say im to innocent and I don't understand!.
Ive snapped a few times and said im not stupid but I am just in despair as its always those 2 against me then their friends and partners joining in. I never blow my own trumpet I never mention the fact that I got A levels far higher than them or that Im doing a law degree im not stupid I know im not thick but I don't know how to handle the situation. I feel so depressed at uni I just want to cry and go home. Any advice would be great
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