Thinking about SO Exs

Does anybody ever think about your SO's former partners? My wife had more partners than I did. Neither of us were virgins when we met. She was by no means promiscuous. We have both been open with each other about all past relationships. (Mine could be counted on one hand, hers on two.) She also had much longer relationships than I did, and of course sex was a part of those relationships. I have never been jealous of her past. In fact, she is still friends with several family members of previous relationships. I do start to think about her sex life pre-me when she show little interest. We have been together around 20 years now. I realize kids, work, bills and everything else gets in the way. When she was with anybody else, she was younger and had no real responsibilities (remember those days). I just think sometimes that the once every year and a half BJ or the weeks without sex because she is not interested are sooo different from what she used to be like. We are not in a sexless marriage, probably in the 3-4 times a month range. I am thankful to be with her. I have never been upset that she had a life before me. I know that there were things she did with partners before me that she won't do with me. (I have asked.) I'm convinced that if our sex life were better, I would never think about it. I really don't know how to bring it up without hurting her feelings. Am I nuts?

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