I have no idea how to get laid

I'm a guy, 22 yo and still a virgin. During high school I never made a move on any girls because I had phimosis on my penis which prevented me from having sex so I would always have an excuse for not approaching girls because I was afraid I would have to have sex with them(which I couldn't do). I hadn't been in any relationship until I was 20 (after being circumcised). My second relationship lasted 1.5 years and we didn't have sex because she couldn't enjoy anything and her V was too tight to even put a finger. So that was a major turn off. So after that I decided I didn't want any relationships because I'm too busy with med school and honestly I don't want a girlfriend. I just want sex. And I mean getting laid by being honest about it and not fooling girls into it by making falsi promises. But I never go and talk to girls. Not at clubs, not at the the beach not anywhere! I'm always concerned that I'll come across as a sleazball, even if I only ask them on a date. Just flirting would satisfy me at the moment because at least it's a step towards improving. But I feel that my confidence has vanished after all those years in high school of being unable to have sex. Thanks for taking the time :)

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