What shou I do about this situation??

I was wondering if anyone had any advice on my situation . Tonight I invited my best friend over for some drinks with my wife and I , things started out fine with the usual banter of laughing and joking with each other , but as the night progressed and drink started to kick in I felt more and more like an outsider in the conversations and the banter between my wife and my best friend started getting more sexual innuendo orientated , this bothered me and when I tried to get in on the conversation my wife put me down sexually and although she put it across as a joke this hurt me , I have noticed many times before that my wife and my best friend seem to get on very well but tonight I felt very uncomfortable with things that were said , anyway to cut a long story short when my friend left I decided to talk to my wife about tonight's events , I told her that I felt like crap with all the flirting going on and asked her if she found him attractive. Perh aps I should never have said anything as this went down like a lead balloon and we ended up having a massive row and I'm now sleeping on the settee tonight . Was I wrong to say anything to her ? Do you think that perhaps I came across as accusational ? Any help would be greatly appreciated...thanks

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