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Wait for marriage or not?

How many people do you think wait to lose their virginity after being married? Is it quite uncommon nowdays?

I'm a guy and I'm 17, and recently I can't stop thinking about the whole idea of losing your virginity. Basically I feel like I am ready to meet girls and have real relationships with girls, not lasting a week or anything.
I am a virgin and want to have sex and experience a sexual relationship with a girlfriend as I'm feeling quite alone recently and want someone to share my life with.

But there is the whole traditional 'saving it for marriage' thing which is in the back of my mind. I've talked this with a friend and he said it is some 'christain bullshi*' and said there is no point waiting. Somebody else said it is special and incredibly flattering for a girl you have saved your virginity until your honeymoon or whatever.
But I don't wanna get married right now. I'm too young lol, I'm just a guy who wants to be with someone but I'm worried my urge to have sex will get the better of me, and lose it to a girl at a party who I'll never see a again lol.. I'm just so confused right now.

So yeah.. What should I do? Does it matter or not to wait for marriage? Should I not be in a relationship?




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