Trying to R, but ex is hung up on the past...

I don't know what else I can do. I have been giving my all to him for 2 months+ now. And we keep falling into the same rut - he keeps bringing up the past. After we D, we both dated others. Did our own thing, but my ex was always consistent with letting me know he still loved me and wanted our family back. Now I'm back 110% and he is still bringing up the past and comparing what I did to what I'm doing now. Well, how can he get over all the "hurt I've caused him" by dating others (even though he did the same thing!) and I don't bring it up because it's not something that runs thru my head 24/7. You can't let the past decide you're future is my look at it. He even got a text late the other night from one of his "other women". He never replied back. She asked how his Saturday night was going. I wasn't very happy, but I understand that it was beyond his control that SHE contacted him. (or maybe I'm too naive). Anyways, how do they get over that hum p of past hurt?? Should he talk to a therapist??

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