Ex has left me insecure about my introversion...

Apologies to begin with if this is in the wrong forum - i couldn't decide which it should be in! I'm an introvert by nature. I'm confident, not shy in the slightest and I'm social to my own standards. I can spend a lot of time by myself, prefer to travel by myself etc etc. I love having a girlfriend but don't have one at the moment, and I prefer chilling with a few close friends and having a massive party friend group isn't really my thing. It's been a struggle growing up with this nature, but I felt i accepted myself fairly young and haven't really given myself a hard time over it. The problem is that about 2 months ago my very extroverted ex-girlfriend broke up with me and now that times gone on I see just how insecure she's made me. She always used to make little digs at me for being boring or a loner or that i must be depressed or lack social skills and found it hard to accept that I enjoyed simplicity and peace. I've started seeing a girl at the moment who's quite extroverted and I find myself getting a bit reluctant that she's gunna start seeing me the same way and I always just feel now a days like people think i'm boring. How can i snap out of this paranoia!

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