Improve your marriage during your commute home from work

This improved my marriage. A few years ago, during the commute home from work, I started making a committed, consistent effort to get my mind in a positive place and make a plan of entry back into my home's front door that would move my marriage and my wife to a better place instead of the reverse which I had done obliviously for years. Instead of thinking about all of the issues of the work day, when I hit my driver's seat I turned on some up uplifting music, started thinking of what my wife needs at the house, what she might like as a surprise, what funny story I could tell my wife and daughter, if we should go out for dinner or some other outing. The dedicated time thinking about how to make my marraige better and my wife happier has paid off nicely. She likes little surprises like her favorite snack or a funny coffee cup, etc, hugs, kisses, a big smile and a positive attitude. She now looks forward to my coming home because my arrival is a blast of positive energy and warmth which is fuel to keep things warm throughout the evening and into the hot bedroom hours. Our time together has a higher quality when it starts off on the right foot. Think about investing your commute time into building momentum that can carry your marriage and quality time to new heights instead of blowing it by deflating the evening with a lousy attitude, bad news and an utter lack of thoughtfulness toward your loved ones needs. :smthumbup:

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