I had to find out the truth

Hi new to the forum, found it searching for self help after finding out about my wifes affair. I initially discovered it after finding she was still logged into FB. After reading through a transcript I discover she had been seeing someone who was in a group of friends she went out with . This person is someone who I had voiced concerns about 18 months ago and she assured me she was not that kind of girl We have been together 11 years and have 4 children. When I confronted her she said they had sex twice, one of those was guilt ridden and they had to stop. A week later I was not happy, I knew there was more and I got into her FB and email accounts. It was there I discovered that she had been staying in hotels with this guy and that it had been going on 12 months whilst I thought she was out with friends. She has now declared her regret and that it was going to end (which I did read prior to confronting her) and that its me and the kids she wants. Im at a total loss what to, I love her and am besotted with my kids, I am not sure she deserves a chance after first lying about the length of the affair and it taking me snooping to find the truth. Any advice please? :scratchhead:

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