Trying to make it right between us

Recently found out my wife has been talking to another guy. I know that recently she has been distant, but never in a million years couldve seen this coming. We both for apparently have communication issues. This past Friday she told me that she has been talking to one of her drivers at work (lives 3 hours away). I guess just the busy lives we live and the constant routine we had, she just didnt feel appreciated anymore. This is not something thats in her character at all, she has never cheated on anyone. She has had many issues with depression in the past and told me that she has been crying in the car before coming home prior to Friday. She said it was tearing her up inside that she has feelings for someone else. She came clean and told me about him and everything that has happened. She said yesterday that she broke it off with him, but her job still requires to have some interaction with him on a daily basis. I have been trying to appreciate he r more and listening to everything she has to say. Doing things for her just so she doesnt have to. But now she says Im smuthering her. Im just lost now. I cant stand knowing that I pushed her away and am trying everything I can think of to fix it. I feel like if I just leave her alone and give her space she may just turn to him for attention. She doesnt want me to leave. Just not sure how to make it work.

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