Should I change just because she did?

Hello all, been a lurker for awhile. April will be 7 years of marriage for my wife and I. For the most part things are good between us, although we do have some issues that cause friction. For example. Porn Usage. I realize this is an old argument, but hear me out. When we were dating, she had no problem with porn, when we were engaged she had no problem with it. The first months of marriage she didn't have any problem with it, hell she even watched it with me. But a year later and to the present day, she hated(s) it, and accused me of adultery whenever I watched it. She now claims that it's cheating, and expected me to stop completely, even though the only times I ever used it was when she was on her monthly...my likes did not change just because hers did...but should they?

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