Obsessed Wife

I will make this as short as possible. Wife is a physical therapist who I believe gets periodically obsessed with a patient. Wife is 44 patient is 68. He goes in once a month for his neck. I read emails my wife sent to friends saying how attracted she was to him about 6 months ago. I confronted and she said it was only a fantasy and nothing inappropriate was going on and it was just something she was going through. I went undercover and was satisfied that there was no significant outside communication or texts. He just became a grandpa and has sent her pics of the baby in recent weeks but nothing inappropriate has been said between them. I truly believe that this guy is not up to no good and may not even realize the obsession she has. This past week I checked browser history and found that she had searched his name, which she has done in the past. I confronted again and she dances around it saying it is something that will never go anywhere and that she commonly searches clients. Now this has been happening off and on for the past 6 months. I worked with the 180 and in a stroke of good luck even had an ex contact me out of the blue which I told my wife and it didn't phase her. In fact I think it may have given her fuel to shoot him off an email though again nothing inappropirate in the email as I checked it. She had given me consent to check months back. Our relationship is pretty solid with sex a few times a week and good communication except on this issue. She is seeing a girlfriend this weekend and I imagine she will discuss this guy and her attraction to him. As compared to what I see posted here, this is not that bad although clearly an annoyance to me. I can even rationalize in my mind that if she i s going to be obsessed better it be with an old coot then some 25 year old guy at the gym. I have a young son so I am not about to go militant and threaten a divorce but some advice would be greatly appreciated.

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