| Hello all, This is my first post. General update on life. Married twice and I actually have Made mistakes that I own up to and can sleep with myself at night. I find myself completely open to our relationship and thought vice versa from her. My question is that I, after 48 years, have found the most awesome person in the world and we are thinking seriously of marriage. I don't want to screw this up nor do I want to rush into anything. After almost a year with said GF, I have noticed some things that I find somewhat disturbing but yet others I guess don't. I just want to know if I am overreacting to what I think is a honesty or dishonest action on her part. The scenario is that we were getting together and a friend of ours lent her $200 and she took it without my knowledge? We have placed our $$ together in a mutual acct to try the marriage before marriage ritual of sharing and being completely honest with each other.., anyways after 2 months the person she borrowed it from is now asking to be repaid back? I pay the bills and I find it somewhat disturbing that I knew nothing of this and when asked who it was she told me and said that he texted her the night before. I asked to see the text- but there is no text, she erased it to avoid conflict with me and she even told me she would have paid him out of our pay on the next pay and I wouldn't even have realized it??? Really?? I have given everything to this woman and yet I feel trampled on and if as though there is a trust or is there an honesty issue going on here?? Am I wrong in thinking she is being dishonest in not telling me about the borrowed $$$?? Also last month she borro w$$s to buya car on her own with her own credit cause she was trying to see if her credit had come up, it did she qualified and even signed for the car-/ problem being they didnt notice the title on the trade was in both our names, needless to say that didnt fly to well with me either??? Rambling on but concerned?? Help | |||
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