| My hubby and I have been together 4 years. In the last few months I have noticed that when he speaks to me he speaks like I am his worst enemy....he's very rude, ignorant, and cold....he has started telling me, on a daily basis that I better never tell him what to do (which I have never done because I know how rude and grumpy he could be) because I dont own him.... i asked him why he always says that and he replied "cuz you don't"...I asked him to please stop saying that as I dont like it and he gave me the silent treatment....We have never had an argument as i have learnt to bite my tongue but now it is getting worse,...when he is good, its good, but when he is in his "MOOD" which is all the time lately, its awful....Ever since we have started living together, in my home, he has never paid a single dime to hep with expenses and I thought it would've changed after marriage but it didn't. He never discusses big purchases like boats, trucks, atv purchases with me, he just comes home and has new things. He decided to sell our summer cottage and buy a travelling rv but now blames me for the cottage being gone. He has even chosen where we will now be camping without me even having a say....he did ask me where I wanted the rv to be parked on our camp lot and when I answered him, he parked it on the other side. I am not a confrontational person, i refuse to argue and I am scared to ask him to talk about it as i have tried once and i only got the silent treatment for 4 days and was walking on eggshells in my own home due to it...does anybody have suggestions on what i should do? There are many other things but i am trying to keep it short |
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