Am I a Good Husband?

Me and my wife have been married for almost 3 years now this November. As a child who grew up without a father because he cheated on my mother and left I have always been the type of man to treat women with respect and try to be the best man I can be. After dating for a few months we got pregnent. After living together for about a year and a half and having our wonderful son we got married. For many years I have always been the type to do everything I can to make my wife happy. Cleaning the house, cooking the meals, waking up with the baby and just anything I could think of to make her happy. Just always felt like it was the right thing to do as a good husband and father. My wife whike I love her has quite a ***** side and cannot handle stress. I therefore gave up many things like fishing and just doing a few things I love. She already had a daughter of 2 at the time who has been difficult lately. If I leave her with the kids I know she will get stressed and take it out on me one way or another. Even if she tells me to do it I don't because it not worth it. Things lately have been difficult. I got to a point where I don't care as much about making her happy after years of her barley showing any appreciation of what I do and then fussing out me when I make a mistake. I just don't care ad much anymore. So of course she accuses me of not loving her and being a big kid and bad husband because I did not clean the house or do something. Basically she ignores the 9 things I do right and out of love like waking up before her every morning to make her coffee even though I don't have to wake until 2 hours after her or giving her back massages even though it hurts my fingers horribly or cleaning the house or cooking every night or waking up.with the 3 year old or watching the kids so she can go have fun every once in a while. She does not notice those but then when I take one day and take it easy and don't clean the house perfectly or whatever she fusses. Why should I care anymore. I honestly feel like If it was not for our son I would of left. I feel like I am being emotionally abused and even taken advantage of from my kindness. It is turning me into a hateful and simply not happy person. What do I do? I try to talk to her but she just turns it around and makes me feel like I did something wrong. I am not saying I am perfect and of course I make mistakes but I just feel like she does not even love me anymore. She never wants to have sex she never does nice things for me she just doesn't seem to care. And when I talk to her about it she says I don't care and I am doing things wrong. I don't want to fight with her. And I just always give in. I am at a point where I have decided in order to keep my son in my life as much as I want I will jus put up with it and live this life. What do I do?? Please help.
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