Ladies, do you experience abject visual arousal? This would be when you see something and you feel sexual arousal in your body, whether you wanted to or not.
Versus organic arousal, which would be when your body just gets aroused for no real reason other than bodies do that sort of thing.
And versus mental arousal, which is when you read or experience something or fantasize about something that sends your body an arousal zing.
I'm asking about abject visual arousal. It is abject only because you had no control over what you saw, it came out of nowhere, you weren't expecting it. It may have been welcomed or not, either way, you had nothing to do with seeing whatever caused the arousal, and the arousal "just happens" without your conscious effort or ability to stop it (from starting at least).
If you were perusing through an eye candy page, that's not abject. But if an unexpected hottie pic shows up somewhere that you can't not see it, that is abject. Do you feel arousal when that happens?
Another question, do you feel arousal in your body when seeing your husband nekkid or when you start making out, or at another time during foreplay or sex, or only when your body gets stimulated, or maybe not at all?
I guess arousal may feel different to all of us, but strong sexual arousal of the type I'm talking about usually includes blood flowing into the clitoris region and a familiar rise that comes with that, plus blood pumping in general and inside the vag coming to life a bit.
I'm not talking about desire, just arousal.
I think we know in general that guys feel abject arousal a lot (especially young guys). Do we?
Versus organic arousal, which would be when your body just gets aroused for no real reason other than bodies do that sort of thing.
And versus mental arousal, which is when you read or experience something or fantasize about something that sends your body an arousal zing.
I'm asking about abject visual arousal. It is abject only because you had no control over what you saw, it came out of nowhere, you weren't expecting it. It may have been welcomed or not, either way, you had nothing to do with seeing whatever caused the arousal, and the arousal "just happens" without your conscious effort or ability to stop it (from starting at least).
If you were perusing through an eye candy page, that's not abject. But if an unexpected hottie pic shows up somewhere that you can't not see it, that is abject. Do you feel arousal when that happens?
Another question, do you feel arousal in your body when seeing your husband nekkid or when you start making out, or at another time during foreplay or sex, or only when your body gets stimulated, or maybe not at all?
I guess arousal may feel different to all of us, but strong sexual arousal of the type I'm talking about usually includes blood flowing into the clitoris region and a familiar rise that comes with that, plus blood pumping in general and inside the vag coming to life a bit.
I'm not talking about desire, just arousal.
I think we know in general that guys feel abject arousal a lot (especially young guys). Do we?
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