Hello Forum users, I need help verifying my sanity. Quick background....My wife and I have been married for 16 years and we have three kids. Her Briggs-Myers personality type is ISTJ and her love language is acts of service. For some reason, my wife will let me touch her only when she is in the mood. For example, in the morning while we are in the bathroom getting ready for the day, I'll pat her nude backside once or twice while I pass her on my way to the shower. She'll say to me in a high-pitched voice "That's a personal area. Don't touch." Sometimes while we are in the kitchen, I'll playfully rub her backside for a second or two (not implying to her that I want sex) and she'll say in a stern voice "Touching!", which means I should not be doing that. Most days of the week she wears skin-tight yoga pants around the house, which makes me salivate even more than I already do (but I won't let her know that :) ). It's tough to get a kiss out of her as well. The most I get during the day is a short peck on the lips in the morning when I leave for work. If I want any other kisses during the day, I have to go get them. And it can't be for longer than a second or two, because anything longer than that is too long. She seems to think this is not normal and I am somehow unique. I know I am not insane. Do other married couples act this way, or is patting your spouse's backside during the day commonplace? I think it's just healthy flirting, but my wife seems to think that every act of affection or any flirting will lead to sex. A little help here.
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