I met this guy on Skout who I really really like. I'm 18 and he's 22. I've never had a bf before. Because of school, work and exams, we've only been able to meet once but it was one of the best days ever and he made me laugh so much.
Since then, his ex gf has flown back from Japan and he let her stay with him for two weeks whilst she tried to win him back. She then hacked into his phone and read all of our messages. I've found out that he's still friends with her and family on fb and her dad still calls him his 'British Son'. (She's friends with his family and best friend still too). I can't help but think this is really really dodgy and that maybe they're still together and I'm being played.
We've been speaking everyday for about two months before he said he loved me. However, I then found out that he cheated A LOT on his ex gf because she cheated on him too. I can't help but think will he do that to me as well.
He also refuses to delete all the pics of him and his ex from fb even though I've asked him to loads because he says he can't be bothered.
I just dont know what to believe or do because he's saying all these really nice things, like how perfect I am and how much he loves me, but then he's obviously still involved with his ex. (He told me he blocked her on fb but they've both been on fb all day today, so I assume they've been chatting).
He knows I'm really scared of doing anything sexually so whenever I ask him about he says he's honestly bored with all that sex/ONS stand, wants something that means more and if he was playing me, wouldnt he have gone for someone 'easier'?
What should I do? I've been hurt before, not just by guys, where my trust has been betrayed and I feel like ****, so I obvs don't want to get back to that. I don't know how to approach this situation without sounding too clingy/desperate or start an argument.
Put the internet to work for you.
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