Inspired by my own experience and several threads lately on TAM I started wondering about the role of sex in trouble marriages.
Does good healthy sex life help trouble marriage or just extends the misery, creates an illusion that things are getting better, or may be better?
We read often here that sex creates a bond and intimacy. And it does. But the problems are still there, not getting away. it is easier to handle them for a while, there is more good will, until the next issue arises.
We also read often here that too many men think everything is ok as long as there is sex. And then once the sex stops, they finally see the issues. So, the sex is clouding our view of relationship somehow.
Sex is neccessary to create intimacy in the relationship, no question about it. But I also believe that it may distract and confuse us too. What are your thoughts about it? I am trying to figure out here my own situation...
Does good healthy sex life help trouble marriage or just extends the misery, creates an illusion that things are getting better, or may be better?
We read often here that sex creates a bond and intimacy. And it does. But the problems are still there, not getting away. it is easier to handle them for a while, there is more good will, until the next issue arises.
We also read often here that too many men think everything is ok as long as there is sex. And then once the sex stops, they finally see the issues. So, the sex is clouding our view of relationship somehow.
Sex is neccessary to create intimacy in the relationship, no question about it. But I also believe that it may distract and confuse us too. What are your thoughts about it? I am trying to figure out here my own situation...
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