If anyone has been faced with this scenario I would really appreciate your help.
To explain, I plan to be on the giving end, not receiving the news. It is not out of any kind of malevolent wish to harm, but simply I have read that under certain circumstances it is the best way to proceed.
My circumstances are a W. with plenty of NPD traits.
We have never managed to talk about issues over 4 years of marriage as there are none, from the emotional void to the anger, the depression, the put downs, etc etc. So I am certain she is completely oblivious to the degree of my unhappiness. So no idea either that divorce is just around the corner.
Complete blind-sider.
Having gone through the various phases of chaos, realization and acceptance, concering the relationship, I now have a choice of putting up or moving on. I plan to move on.
If anyone has been through something similar, and would like to share I would be keen to know what to possibly expect come the dreadful day when saying it is all over, and even if it is the "best" way to proceed.
Thanks for any help.
To explain, I plan to be on the giving end, not receiving the news. It is not out of any kind of malevolent wish to harm, but simply I have read that under certain circumstances it is the best way to proceed.
My circumstances are a W. with plenty of NPD traits.
We have never managed to talk about issues over 4 years of marriage as there are none, from the emotional void to the anger, the depression, the put downs, etc etc. So I am certain she is completely oblivious to the degree of my unhappiness. So no idea either that divorce is just around the corner.
Complete blind-sider.
Having gone through the various phases of chaos, realization and acceptance, concering the relationship, I now have a choice of putting up or moving on. I plan to move on.
If anyone has been through something similar, and would like to share I would be keen to know what to possibly expect come the dreadful day when saying it is all over, and even if it is the "best" way to proceed.
Thanks for any help.
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