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I am on path 1 with my wife. I am on path 2 with the OM. It's not easy but I believe it is necessary.
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TWO PATHS OF FORGIVENESS:
FORGIVENESS PATH #1.) We forgive and decide to move on, with that person in our lives, choosing to be mindful not to continue bringing past indiscretions into the present through resentful behaviors.
FORGIVENESS PATH #2.) Forgiveness for past wrong-doings, but letting that person go, along with the anger, resentment or negative feeling you have for them. Forgiveness won't always result in a mended relationship, but it will heal at least ONE heart.
#MindfuMoment : "Unconditional love" doesn't include staying in an consistently negative or abusive relationship. Forgiveness can't be used as a means to justify ongoing transgressions, Path #1 can only be used with intent to keep PAST BEHAVIORS from destroying the potential of the present with the road block of a hardened heart. Sometimes, it's necessary to let go and move on. Not because you want to, but because you have to. The X factor is #GENUINECHANGE. If genuine change is NOT involved, consider Path #2.
I am on path 1 with my wife. I am on path 2 with the OM. It's not easy but I believe it is necessary.
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TWO PATHS OF FORGIVENESS:
FORGIVENESS PATH #1.) We forgive and decide to move on, with that person in our lives, choosing to be mindful not to continue bringing past indiscretions into the present through resentful behaviors.
FORGIVENESS PATH #2.) Forgiveness for past wrong-doings, but letting that person go, along with the anger, resentment or negative feeling you have for them. Forgiveness won't always result in a mended relationship, but it will heal at least ONE heart.
#MindfuMoment : "Unconditional love" doesn't include staying in an consistently negative or abusive relationship. Forgiveness can't be used as a means to justify ongoing transgressions, Path #1 can only be used with intent to keep PAST BEHAVIORS from destroying the potential of the present with the road block of a hardened heart. Sometimes, it's necessary to let go and move on. Not because you want to, but because you have to. The X factor is #GENUINECHANGE. If genuine change is NOT involved, consider Path #2.
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