So I had a conflict with my hubby yesterday, he hurt his hand trying to repair something and then stopped and yelled "Oh ****, oh ****, I am bleeding", put a paper towel on his hand, telling me to do it and I could not do it because I lack the physical strength.
I told him "Oh, wow, how really, really truely manly you are". Okay then he fixed the thing he tried to fix before.
He seemed to be offended and later did something truly idiotic. I was not something mean he did, just something idiotic and careless. I was feeling very angry - how could he be so careless? He has immense safety fears (like fear of crowds, fear of a home invasion) but then goes and does something idiotic. Maybe because he was still hurt, maybe because he is on a medication that makes him douzy.
I am trying hard not to be mean and judgemental so could you please help me understand if I was being judgemental?
Feeling dysphoric about my marriage right now and felt like writing a mean rant but then I stopped trying to see how I was to blame.
I told him "Oh, wow, how really, really truely manly you are". Okay then he fixed the thing he tried to fix before.
He seemed to be offended and later did something truly idiotic. I was not something mean he did, just something idiotic and careless. I was feeling very angry - how could he be so careless? He has immense safety fears (like fear of crowds, fear of a home invasion) but then goes and does something idiotic. Maybe because he was still hurt, maybe because he is on a medication that makes him douzy.
I am trying hard not to be mean and judgemental so could you please help me understand if I was being judgemental?
Feeling dysphoric about my marriage right now and felt like writing a mean rant but then I stopped trying to see how I was to blame.
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