Hi there,
I've been talking to this guy a while, and we have met in person twice. We get on great, and after each meeting he was still enthusiastic and messaged me first etc. In the early days, we literally spoke every night on Facebook. However, I also understand that it isn't necessarily healthy to message someone every night, and I know there is nothing wrong with breaks. But I'm just concerned that it's because he doesn't like me as much. I'm confused because it's usually a 2 day period - I won't hear from him, then he will come back onto Facebook all normal, but I'm not one to pry and I am not the type of girl to demand an answer as to where he has been. He hasn't got a job at the moment, and he does stay at home a lot. However, he has recently moved houses to an area in which he used to live, so he has old friends there. It may be the case that he is seeing friends, however I just have a gut feeling it's something else.
I'm just confused because his overall tone hasn't changed towards me when he is online - we're planning to meet at the beginning of April. I just don't understand why we can speak for a couple of days, and then he just disappears for a couple of days after. He hasn't got the use of a mobile phone either, in the sense that he cannot afford credit, so I literally have to wait till he comes online to even know if he is okay.
Am I over-thinking it? Should I just play it cool? This happened the other week, and I was going to ask him honestly if he had gone off me. However, he then came online acting all normal so I didn't want to ruin anything and mention that I feel he may be disinterested in me, and that he hasn't got an obligation to keep up relations with me if he isn't really into me.
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