worried about seeing the kids after divorce

Hi everyone, Been a while since posting here. Divorce final since Aug 15th now so to say the least I'm dealing with it. I am bitter and think on it a lot but my question is about my kids. They are both adults. Daughter 26 and Son 18. Both have residence with my ex. My son stays with me most nights because I'm closer to college and have internet and spare room... Might be cause I'm more convenient but I appreciate the time with him. My daughter, on the other hand has made no or very little effort to see me. I have called and texted often to check if there is an issue and always she claims there isn't and she is just real busy and even states we will meet for dinner sometimes but never does. Her mom and I met when she was 5 and I adopted her after marriage and was the dad for 20 years. I guess my question is how I should handle it. She is an adult and has her own life and issue. Should I just do my thing and hope she someday see the need to visit or should I keep calling and worrying about it. I'm still insecure about my kids feelings on the divorce and who they blame if anyone and cant seem to shake it. I know its done. live my life and move on but it still on my mind. Any words of wisdom would be appreciated
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