I observe my wife in a distance putting her enervy and efforts into alot of things such as activities with my inlaws and her sister and trying to organize things at home. Including getting things ready for kids going back to school. One thing that she almost never reserves energy anx efforts is ... her relationship with me.....like going out some dates or spendinh alone time wth me and our sex life.....unless..unless....I become distant and somewhat cold and dont talk to her much. Then...only then....does her light bulb go on regard us. Only then will she ask me how come I havent touched her lately or why have I been real quiet. I have really come to realize where I stand... and im statting to resent her....alot. yes taking care of a household is alot of work....but what value does it hold if u dont nurture ur relationship with ur spouse. See'she can take the effort to train herself to wake up early and take kids to school or something...bu t cant say to herself.... I need to take at least 30mins and be with mu husband. Take the time to be physically intimate with my husband. Ur gonna ask me...have I talked to her about this? I have before....it dont matter anymore. Im not asking for much.....just very easy stuff....very simple stuff. I guess my silence and distance will be more understood by her than anything else.
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