Is it okay to think that you're too good for someone (or that you want to reject them based on your high standards), provided you don't say it to anyone else? To merely think it as part of making a decision?
Just found out a male acquaintance secretly fancies me, and would go out with me if he got the chance (mutual friends who are very close to him told me).
He's quite good-looking, IMO, and is smart too - but his personality (he's rude and blunt half the time, is often passive-aggressively criticising others on his Twitter account, and his social skills leave something to be desired) is a total, total turn off. I'm always kind to people unless they deserve it, am very sociable and try to help others, and have a lot of friends because of it.
I honestly feel like I deserve someone better mannered than he is, especially given how nice I am to others. However, is this arrogant? Is it mean to turn someone down because you feel you're "out of their league" personality-wise or otherwise, as opposed to just because they don't fit your standards or are not a nice person?
Put the internet to work for you.
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