Inspired by another thread.
If you had a fetish (feet / excessive masturbation / secret porn habits / bdsm / anal play / dressing up / wearing panties / self cum shots / bisexual / tranny) that you knew your spouse wasn't okay with, do you resist the desires or deal with them privately?
If your spouse found out about your fetish and knew it embarrassed you, would you rather them confront you and let you know he/she didn't agree with it? Or would you rather them keep it to themselves and have these feelings about your fetish being disgusting, without ever telling you they knew because it would embarrass you?
I'll start. I've tried to be as open as possible about any desire I had, no matter how embarrassing they are. If I did have a secret I didn't tell her, and she found out without telling me, I would be more bothered by her negative thoughts towards me if she kept it to herself. I guess I am the type of person that would rather just be embarrassed and know my secret it out, than just not know and have my wife have these bad thoughts about me.
If you had a fetish (feet / excessive masturbation / secret porn habits / bdsm / anal play / dressing up / wearing panties / self cum shots / bisexual / tranny) that you knew your spouse wasn't okay with, do you resist the desires or deal with them privately?
If your spouse found out about your fetish and knew it embarrassed you, would you rather them confront you and let you know he/she didn't agree with it? Or would you rather them keep it to themselves and have these feelings about your fetish being disgusting, without ever telling you they knew because it would embarrass you?
I'll start. I've tried to be as open as possible about any desire I had, no matter how embarrassing they are. If I did have a secret I didn't tell her, and she found out without telling me, I would be more bothered by her negative thoughts towards me if she kept it to herself. I guess I am the type of person that would rather just be embarrassed and know my secret it out, than just not know and have my wife have these bad thoughts about me.
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