So I've been friends with this girl since year 9 (now in year 12) and ever since I've known her she has liked this guy, she's dated others and been semi-happy. But recently she found out that the guy she has liked likes her back and has for a long time.
Now I initially supported her because she has always been crazy about the guy. But now I have a few issues. Basically I don't really like him, I never really knew him before but because they are together and he hangs around our group quite a lot. I don't like how he controls her, he pushes her about as he is quite strong and I think tries to force opinions and view points on her. I suppose maybe a part of me is jealous that they see each other everyday when I'm in a long distance relationship. And I find them uncomfortable to be around. And several other of my friends don't like him either and they too feel uncomfortable. I tend to argue with the guy rather a lot and because of this I kinda feel like I'm losing my friend though I have not expressed my feelings to her. Oh and I feel that it is kinda splitting my friends up, we are a group of 7 and 3 of us are really fed up with him. And I feel like it is splitting up the group and the 3 of us really don't want to be around the m anymore and so are going a different way; and I don't want to be a bitch and talk to my friend and tell her I don't like her boyfriend. What should I do?
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