My husband and I have been married for 22 years. One child who is grown and out of the house.
My husband has had very serious drug problems in the past that have hurt our marriage tremendously. He has struggled with this on and off for over half of our marriage. He has been to rehab and counseling, but went back to the drugs. The drugs cause him to be very mean and emotionally abusive to me and obviously cause a lot of financial struggles.
He cleaned up (again) and we tried to move on (again). He is now using again. We have had long talks about this and he keeps promising he is trying to stop, but I keep catching him in lies, such as, where he is going, how much money he has, etc. The verbal abuse is also starting again.
I love him dearly but I don't want to live this kind of life anymore. At the same time, I cant imagine my life without him. I try to believe him when he says it will stop but his actions show otherwise.
It doesnt look like he will ever change. Do I face the facts and call it quits? How do I face my life without him? Any advice please?
My husband has had very serious drug problems in the past that have hurt our marriage tremendously. He has struggled with this on and off for over half of our marriage. He has been to rehab and counseling, but went back to the drugs. The drugs cause him to be very mean and emotionally abusive to me and obviously cause a lot of financial struggles.
He cleaned up (again) and we tried to move on (again). He is now using again. We have had long talks about this and he keeps promising he is trying to stop, but I keep catching him in lies, such as, where he is going, how much money he has, etc. The verbal abuse is also starting again.
I love him dearly but I don't want to live this kind of life anymore. At the same time, I cant imagine my life without him. I try to believe him when he says it will stop but his actions show otherwise.
It doesnt look like he will ever change. Do I face the facts and call it quits? How do I face my life without him? Any advice please?
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