This year was supposed to be the happiest year of my life and for those who I am blessed to be around with but from cloud 9 to hell 6 when I found out my wife was having an affair 7 weeks after we got married. I'm a strong believer that when vows are exchanged they are morally bound but to my wife the vows and commitment to the marriage is meaningless.
8 months have passed while we tried to work on our marriage by seeking counselling and I sought my own counselling for my own needs. During the counselling, she continued her affair whilst we tried to work on our marriage and this was the final straw that the lies will not stop.
We are filing for an annulment and that can take up to around 4 to 5 months and I hope to see a happy outcome when we are legally separated but I'm finding it difficult to cope in the "abyss" whilst we are working on the annulment. I am angry that I have a "view" that she is having fun and getting on with her life whilst I'm still feeling hurt. I don't want to switch my feelings off because I don't want to deny my emotions but these are all very new feelings. I seldom to talk to my friends and family because I don't want them to worry, but more so there is only so much they can understand.
I want to carry on with my life, I had been planning to start a new business for the last 18 months, business mind says don't stop as I have put in so much hard work to get things set up but I'm cautious that I don't want the business to get affect by my negative emotions... :scratchhead:
Should I stay in the "abyss" until we are legally separated or should I continue with my ambitious plans with my new business?
8 months have passed while we tried to work on our marriage by seeking counselling and I sought my own counselling for my own needs. During the counselling, she continued her affair whilst we tried to work on our marriage and this was the final straw that the lies will not stop.
We are filing for an annulment and that can take up to around 4 to 5 months and I hope to see a happy outcome when we are legally separated but I'm finding it difficult to cope in the "abyss" whilst we are working on the annulment. I am angry that I have a "view" that she is having fun and getting on with her life whilst I'm still feeling hurt. I don't want to switch my feelings off because I don't want to deny my emotions but these are all very new feelings. I seldom to talk to my friends and family because I don't want them to worry, but more so there is only so much they can understand.
I want to carry on with my life, I had been planning to start a new business for the last 18 months, business mind says don't stop as I have put in so much hard work to get things set up but I'm cautious that I don't want the business to get affect by my negative emotions... :scratchhead:
Should I stay in the "abyss" until we are legally separated or should I continue with my ambitious plans with my new business?
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