It is difficult to summarize, but I asked my husband of 5 years to give me a "break" since he was being emotionally abusive and oppressive. He has OCD and very strong narcissistic tendencies. From the beginning, I have felt that his love was performance based and am having a difficult time with his belief that my role as a wife is to, "make him comfortable". He has been threatening to leave me and end the marriage for several years because he told me that he is not happy with my cleaning, meals, or quantity of sex I give him.
My counselor states that am co-dependent which I now believe is true. We have been receiving counseling for 4 months, but my husband continues to be blind to his issues and believes what he wants is just normal. Any advice is appreciated!
My counselor states that am co-dependent which I now believe is true. We have been receiving counseling for 4 months, but my husband continues to be blind to his issues and believes what he wants is just normal. Any advice is appreciated!
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