Meeting up with ex who cheated on me?

Its been 7 months since my GF cheated. I broke up immediately, and had a zero contact for about 4 months. I see her everyday at work, and its been tough.

It still bugs me why she did that, and what would have happened if she hadn't done that..how much she meant to me..

There are so many things I wanted to tell her and ask her... and even though we broke up, I want to tell her everything...as in how it affected me, why she did that, is she happy now, why i can never have her, did she ever truly like me etc etc...

i texted her saying we are obviously over but I want to talk to her about few things, to give it a closure...she replied and we're now meeting up.

would this be the time that I can genuinely open up and tell her everything thats happened or gone through my mind since she cheated, and about how bad I feel and how much this has had an effect on me? or should i just ask her why she did that etc, but pretend to be happy now, without her?!

I don't think she cares much about me, but she once did, and I know that. So I don't know whether its a good idea telling her everything?


Any suggestions?

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