Single/Separated/Divorced Ladies over 25:
What is your experience "getting back out there?" I ask because my relationship isn't going well, and I'm wondering what it would be like to date again (I AM NOT CHEATING OR DATING NOW BTW). I'm going to be 28 soon, and I haven't dated since I was barely 23.
My cousin (who is now 33) started dating her ex husband when she was 22. They divorced when she was 31. I never thought dating in your late 20s or early 30s would be that much different than your early 20s, but she says it's impossible to find a good guy in her age range (30-40). She says they are all creeps/jerks just looking for a ONS or they have major commitment issues. Her theory is all the good guys are scooped up by the time they are 30. Apparently she has some single and divorced friends around the same age as her who have had the same observations.
Looking back, I remember hearing men say stuff like "Women start to 'rot' when they are in their late 20s" and "Women in their early 20s are the hottest." But I thought those were just the jerks and I didn't pay too much attention.
Now I'm reading all these studies saying that men in their 30s and older prefer and pursue women under 25.
So is it hard to find a good guy in your late 20s and beyond? Or are my cousin and her friends doing something wrong?
What is your experience "getting back out there?" I ask because my relationship isn't going well, and I'm wondering what it would be like to date again (I AM NOT CHEATING OR DATING NOW BTW). I'm going to be 28 soon, and I haven't dated since I was barely 23.
My cousin (who is now 33) started dating her ex husband when she was 22. They divorced when she was 31. I never thought dating in your late 20s or early 30s would be that much different than your early 20s, but she says it's impossible to find a good guy in her age range (30-40). She says they are all creeps/jerks just looking for a ONS or they have major commitment issues. Her theory is all the good guys are scooped up by the time they are 30. Apparently she has some single and divorced friends around the same age as her who have had the same observations.
Looking back, I remember hearing men say stuff like "Women start to 'rot' when they are in their late 20s" and "Women in their early 20s are the hottest." But I thought those were just the jerks and I didn't pay too much attention.
Now I'm reading all these studies saying that men in their 30s and older prefer and pursue women under 25.
So is it hard to find a good guy in your late 20s and beyond? Or are my cousin and her friends doing something wrong?
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