Not very experienced with women

Hi. At the age of 24 I have had my fair share of disappointments with romance. Never being able to get myself a girlfriend, I've experienced periods of low self-esteem and failure, but to make a long story short, I now no longer feel such an entrapment to such tendencies, I being able to finally enjoy a life that doesn't demand that my happiness is based upon the affections of a another, that its down to me and my actions to sort myself out rather than rely on others. With that, I have become a much more head strong person, but the intrigue in the opposite sex still remains. Today, approaches towards women on a romantic level tend to be on trial and error run, a way for me to discover how to flirt and interact with women in this way, but so far I've not been able to work out much. Women, while I am able to formulate a cordial friendship and can express confidence as much with them as with everyone else, I am unable to see any attraction towar ds myself from women, either because they're not interested, I am not picking up the signals, or is still inexperienced at courting women. Thus far, instead of giving too much attention to women, as I feel, learned from differing sources, that it gives off the wrong signals, that I am needy or too easy? Now I "semi" ignore them, I focusing on the activity I am indulging, i.e. work, shopping, stuff in general, and pretty much giving them the same amount of attention as everyone else I interact with. Instead of them being the great mystery of the century (as they are to most men not very acquainted with women), they're more of a puzzle that I cannot crack in a more upbeat perspective. Any help?

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