How long for a relationship to recover?

Hi all- my wife issued me an ultimatum about two weeks ago. Among my transgressions are: 1. History of snapping rudely to her 2. Failure to put her first 3. Failure to stand up to my parents (actually not all that bad now) 4. Easily frustrated with her and the kids She's an awesome mother and wife. It's been 8 years of frustration for her with me (see above), and she's at her wits end. Her father is battling cancer, and I just got diagnosed with adult adhd. I have been a very good husband over the past two weeks, but my question is, how long before things get to where they should be, like regular sex? I ask her and she almost gets pissed about it and doesn't want to talk. She doesn't even want to talk about it. "Just bloody well do it" she says. Help! What to do, what to ask her!

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