Seeking advice on Separation.

Ok, I am a new member I have found a lot of information on this site and thought I would post my story to hopefully gain some insight on my current situation. My W and I have been married for 2 years together for almost 6. Over the course of the past year we started to drift apart and argue more and more. I take full responsibility for letting the situation progress to this point. I ignored her attempts to tell me how she felt and fix the situation. I had the tendency in the past to ignore some of the things she said (Big Mistake!) I am laid back and easy going while she is easily offended it we used to balance each other out before the past year perfectly. A month ago she moved out, the experience of coming home and finding her gone was like being hit by a truck. It has changed my view on everything in life. I feel like I work up from a yearlong dream. At this point my only contact with her has been through email. I don't have her number. A few days after she moved out she came back while I was at work and got everything she owns left her house keys ect. I found out she has an apartment. She already separated everything financially a few months ago; this is what we were fighting about when she moved out. I was focused on her actions of pulling away and separating everything instead of the reasons behind it. My feeling at the time were if you want to work things out you don't tell your spouse you are done or go through the motions of separating everything behind their back. My reaction to all of this has been to write email after email everyday telling her how sorry I was and how I want her back. Her response has been cold and angry she seems to be filled with so much anger towards me and how I have let her down. We met up last week to exchange some tax items since we decided to file jointly. I told her again how I felt and asked her to forgive me. She seemed defensive but not as angry. Overall she was noncommittal she won't give me any time line for our separation. I sent her flowers this past week and a letter telling her once again how I felt and that I want to work it out. Her only response was "thanks, wish you could have told me this a year ago." She seems to waiver between wanting to work it out and having no interest whatsoever. I feel like she is trying to make me pay for what has happened over the past year. My question is what course of action to take now. She has to know how I feel by now; I am to the point where I am ready to stop all contact besides what is absolutely needed.

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