| So, taking a cue from Katy's thread, it is time for me to start dealing with my codependency issues. I am comfortable with where I am with the stbxw. I am no longer focusing on her. It is now time to focus on me. I took a break from TAM because I felt I was getting better. In many ways, I am. I no longer focus on the ex. I no longer care about what she is doing. I can have conversations with her without getting upset. But, in a some ways, I am no better than the day I came here. I am happy with who I am. I know what I want. I know who I am. I know these in my head, but making it a reality, is harder than I thought. - I am a people pleaser. I rarely say no to anyone. - I want to be liked. I want people to like me and want to be around me. I will do and say whatever to get this done. I will lie, exaggerate, etc. - I manipulate people to get what I want. - I rug-sweep when I do something wrong. I dont want to admit it to anyone. There is more, I am sure. I am looking for a new counselor this week, since my current one is not challenging me enough. So, here we go. I want your brutal honesty with me here. I really need it. Thanks. | |||
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Moved on, time to deal with codependency
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