It has been 2 years of ups and downs. My wife initially refused to admit that what she had was even an affair. She would stand on her soap box and claim that it was not infidelity. Of course this denial only fanned the flames of my betrayal. For 2 years she has continued to lie to me, not willing to be transparent, minimize, defend and deflect.We are currently in counseling and we are making progress ONLY because she has turned 180 degrees and is now remorseful and full of shame.
The ultimate question I have is, if she went away for a weekend with her lover, let's say to Las Vegas, should I in my recovery ever be comfortable going to Las Vegas with her again? Do I have the right to set parameters around my mental and emotional well being?
The ultimate question I have is, if she went away for a weekend with her lover, let's say to Las Vegas, should I in my recovery ever be comfortable going to Las Vegas with her again? Do I have the right to set parameters around my mental and emotional well being?
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