I'm not going to go into details about how I found about but basically my dad has been having a full on affair with a woman for about 7 years now and he visits her house everyday, goes out to places with her and from reading through his face book messages (keylogged his computer ) for the past year and a half I've discovered he's planning on buying a house with her and has already brought her a car, despite saying that he cannot afford things for our family. My mum hears from numerous people that he had been seen with a woman a few years ago and she had her suspisions but he manages to get away with it. I am the only one who knows about this 7 year long affair and the full extent of it and what he's done and it has been tough keeping it in for all this time, especially as I am only 14. The hardest part is when my dad sneaks off everyday to see her when he comes home he makes a very believeble excuse as to where he was hence why my mum is unaware, but I know exactl y where he was and what he was doing and it's killing me. Not to mention I've found numerous things such as MDMA and Viagra in his 'work' bag which I've never told anyone about. Me and my dad get along so well and it would kill me to not see him or anything which is why I've never told my mum or siblings about the affair etc. and because my sister is only 10 and wouldn't cope very well. I still love my dad but equally my mum so I have never liked or found it easy to keep this quiet. I just find it amazing how this has been going on for so long and yet I noticed it when I was 7!! but still no one else has, I've always had my suspiciouns. The bottom line is I am very confused and feel so bad for keeping this in all this time but at the same time I don't want to destroy our family but surely my mum should know. Help!!!
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