So not really ironic but it's become a trend in itself for me...just read a great post from Woundedwarrior on what he wished he had learned sooner and the obvious but often ignored piece was that 'the marriage comes first, before kids, job, etc.' I would add the word 'Friends'. In many posts but for sure if you go to dating sites, look at how many people do have in their bio ' love to spend time with my friends'....question: isn't the point of marriage to be each other's best friends in addition to the rest and of course this does not mean no other friends but given a scenario where you would need to pick one or the other wouldn't you pick your spouse? Do the younger generations in particular feel 'exposed' without an entourage surrounding them at all times?
The bio's read like a laundry list of other priorities to me. I assume that you have friends but if you want a relationship I expect to come first, not 2nd-3rd-4th-5th in your priority list...
The bio's read like a laundry list of other priorities to me. I assume that you have friends but if you want a relationship I expect to come first, not 2nd-3rd-4th-5th in your priority list...
Put the internet to work for you.
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