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I lied to my boyfriend and now I feel bad

Hi,

We've been together for 4 years, but recently we've been having a tough patch. I'd considered ending the relationship over the problems. However, I've been doing a lot of thinking, spoken to a couple of good friends, and decided that I'm going to stay with him and work on our problems.

Now my boyfriend would hate to know that I'd talked about it with my friends - even though I was just getting advice. He saw a text come up on my phone earlier that talked about SAD (which he has) - and rather than tell him I had been talking about him, I told him that a member of my friend's family might have SAD.

I also, whilst thinking about leaving him, got into contact with an old friend on FB that my boyfriend hates and apologised for blocking her. I'd blocked her on my boyfriend's request - I have nothing against her - and I told her I was fed up of treating people like **** just because my boyfriend said so (which is true).

Now I know I'm not leaving him, I feel bad for doing these two things - I'm usually an incredibly honest person, and I normally tell my boyfriend everything, and now I feel awful.

Have I actually done anything wrong or am I just over-worrying?




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