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Happily married but curious about other sex partners... how do you cope with this?

My wife and I have been together for 7 years now, married for 5. We are in our late 20s. We have a great relationship but it's just that for some time now, on and off, for maybe the past couple of years or so, I've been getting that curiosity/itch... sorry I'm not sure what to call it, let me try to elaborate a little bit.

Let's say you got married probably a little too early in your life and you missed out on the variety of sex partners that you could possibly have... then a side of you is sort of yearning to explore or is curious about what sex with other partners is like?

I'm sure some guys must know what I'm talking about here. You love the person you're married too but you're sexual instincts is still curious about others? I guess for me, in my case, it doesn't help that I had a very lacking sex life prior to marriage or rather, it could have been better. Maybe that's why I'm feeling this way?

I've always wanted to do a threesome or at least watch two girls in person together, and this and that, and seeing the variety of women out there in life, different bodies, different looks, wearing all sorts of sexy outfits and there's certain things you just wanna do to them or that you're curious about (i.e. taste, smell, touch, etc.) but now I realize I can never do those things without getting divorced.

So a part of me kind of regrets getting married early and a part of me really loves this woman and how she treats me, a part of me really wants to be that family kind of guy. But sometimes I'm drawn towards that sexual curiosity side. And I don't want to cheat.

Sorry if anything I said above sounded perverted, I'm just trying to explain what I'm going through.

Any advice on what I should do? Has any other men here had the same problem?




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